58 Powerful Ways to Praise Your Grandchildren

When someone performs well, excels, or achieves something extraordinary, we naturally feel compelled to praise them. The same sentiment holds true for our grandchildren, heightened by our profound love for them. Not only does it make us feel good because we get to see the smiles on their faces, but psychologists and child development experts agree that praise significantly boosts a child’s self-esteem. As a grandparent, you have the unique opportunity to use these praise-filled moments to share your own wisdom and help teach important life lessons while those little ears are listening closely. While praise remains crucial, its nature evolves as these youngsters transition into teenagers. This list will explore various ways to praise your grandkids, adapting not only as they grow but also as they mature into their teenage years.

Everyone

Let’s start with everyone. Because everyone needs praise. As we move through this list we’ll explore the different ages of childhood leading up to adulthood, but just for a minute, let’s talk about praise that everyone needs. The strategies outlined here are versatile and can be applied across all age groups; feel free to draw inspiration from any section regardless of the recipient’s age, as even adults can benefit from simple words of encouragement.

1. I love your passion for [whatever the person is currently passionate about.]
2. I love how well you did that task.
3. Thank you for being a helper.
4. Thank you for helping.
5. You are a great listener.
6. You are a great friend.
7. You are so positive and uplifting.
8. I love that you care so much.
9. I value our conversations.
10. You are doing a great job.

Young Grandchildren

During the early years, simplicity is key. When praising children under the age of 9, it’s essential to keep compliments brief and immediate. If you observe positive behavior like sharing, don’t delay your praise; acknowledge it promptly since young children have short attention spans. Some of the best praises you can give your young grandchildren are:

11. You have such a vibrant imagination!
12. You’re so kind and caring to others.
13. Wow, you’re really good at sharing with your friends.
14. You’re so creative.
15. You have a great sense of humor 
16. You’re a fantastic listener.
17. You’re so brave for trying new things.
18. Your curiosity is inspiring.
19. I’m impressed with your problem-solving skills.
20. You care for others, and it really shows.
21. Your enthusiasm is contagious.
22. You’re doing an amazing job at learning and growing.
23. You have a very kind heart.
24. You never give up.
25. You’re very respectful to others.
26. You have a fantastic memory.
27. You are doing a great job!

Tween Grandchildren

The middle years (usually considered ages 9-12)are often known as the literal years. At this stage, everything is interpreted literally, so the compliments you provide should align with this mindset to be well-received and resonate with this age group. They are moving into those teen years and becoming easily embarrassed. Similar to dealing with your younger grandchildren, keep it simple. Acknowledge and praise their actions without overcomplicating it. While they may have started thinking they know everything, you know they don’t just yet. Here are some good, literal-minded praises for this age group:

28. You’ve got a really cool way of seeing the world.
29. Your determination is seriously impressive.
30. I love how respectful and thoughtful you are to others.
31. You’ve got organization and focus down to a science!
32. You’re so responsible, and I am so proud of you.
33. Your kindness makes a real difference in others’ lives.
34. The dedication you have to your passions is inspiring.
35. Your problem-solving skills are like your superpower!
36. You’re always open to learning something new, and that’s amazing
37. Your positive attitude can change the world.
38. I am so impressed by the way you adapt and learn from new experiences.
39. Your passion for your goals is like a force of nature.
40. I know this is hard, but you can do hard things!
41. I love your desire to learn new things
42. You are a great helper!

Teen Grandchildren

The teen years. I’m sure you remember your own kids’ teen years like it was yesterday. Much remains the same—they are still exploring their identities and testing boundaries as they mature. They believe they have all the answers and have experienced everything. They think they know more than you (which, of course, they don’t). Despite their tendency to feel self-conscious around family, they crave praise, perhaps now more than ever, while navigating the challenges of adolescence. Identify their strengths, interests, and hobbies, and leverage this knowledge. By showing an interest in what brings them joy, even if just at a basic level, you can unlock doors to their world through meaningful praise. Here are some ways to praise your teen grandchildren:

43. I am so impressed by your drive and determination.
44. I love how you treat others with respect and understanding.
45. It’s great to see you taking responsibility – we need more people like you.
46. You have a genuine kindness and empathy that people truly appreciate.
47. Your passion for your interests is inspiring!
48. Your problem-solving skills are beyond your years.
49. Your openness to learning new things is something I really admire.
50. Your creativity is like a spark that lights up everything you do.
51. Your positive vibes and optimism can lift anyone’s spirits.
52. Keep up the hard work and perseverance 
53. The way you adapt and learn from new experiences is super impressive.
54. I love how you stand up for what you believe in.
55. Your dedication to self-improvement is motivating.
56. Your passion for your goals is infectious.
57. Your unique perspective adds so much flavor and depth to conversations!
58. Can you tell me more about [whatever the person is currently passionate about], I’d love to learn more!

Praising Your Grandchildren

Anyone and everyone needs praise. No matter their age. It brings a smile to their faces, boosts their self-confidence, and drives them to continue to do good, or even to do better. I hope these lists and brief explanations help you be able to praise your grandchildren, no matter their age, or yours. And feel free to use these lists and ideas well into adulthood, even with your friends and other family members. Sometimes just the smallest praise can make someone’s day a thousand times brighter. Now let’s go out there and boost some confidence!